down memory lane...

I found this picture on the net...

hahahaha....

those were the days... no worries.. no real problems..

I was never someone who could sit still...

dua budak botak...

wanna see the next instalment of the 2 budak botak... go to http://www.upinipinangkasa.com/ to watch the teaser trailer

its an umbrella..dont need to cover it anymore le...

everyone knows the song "Umbrella". everyone knows that a lot of people have sang it in their own version... but i stumbled upon a cover by the group "THE BASEBALLS".. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DM2177pHMT0

enjoy people....

kena tag diriku ini...lalu kat sensor nnti bunyik beep2

1. Nama-nama timangan oleh orang yang tersayang:
family: alep, hoi...
friends: alep, alip, alooped, loop, bowl, mangkuk, hoi, pendekar laut(hahahhaha)

2. Anda seorang yang.........- penyabar kot...but highly combustable(mcm contradict plak)

3. Insan teristimewa?- the voluptuous montok wina, n my parents of course...


4. My favourite food?- masakan org pencen ibunda


5. Favourite Colour?- hitam, hijau, ungu

6. Favourite Song?- songsang, n bunyi dengkuran wina..


7. Sikap Yang Membuatkan Anda Stress-people dwelling on reoccuring issues while actually they can focus more on finding out the solution...n one more think is people yg suke complicate simple matters..

8. 3 Benda Yang Mesti Ada Dalam bag?- mosturiser, deodorant, ubat..


9. Kali terakhir anda menangis beria-ria?- masa sesuatu yg sedih berlaku xlama dahulu


hmm....saya xramai kawan di dlm alam blog ni...jadi xnaklah tag sesape...

something that is related to all of us... conciously, subconciously and unconciously

Superiority Complex

Superiority complex refers to a subconscious neurotic mechanism of compensation developed by the individual as a result of feelings of inferiority.The feelings of inferiority in this specific complex are often brought on by real or perceived social rejection.

The term "superiority complex", in everyday usage, refers to an overly high opinion of oneself; in psychology, it refers to the unrealistic and exaggerated belief that one is better than others. In some people, this develops as a way to compensate for unconscious feelings of low self-esteem or inadequacy.

For example, bullies who push other children around act like they are stronger and smarter than others their age. Sometimes, the reality is that they simply have low self-esteem and bully others in order to compensate for their perceived lack of self worth. The socially awkward teen may convince themselves that the reason they cannot connect with more forward individuals is because they are more intelligent and sophisticated than them. In adults, even business executives may put on a tough facade and try to make others think well of them, but inside they feel inadequate and do not respect themselves.

Therefore, those exhibiting the superiority complex may project their feelings of inferiority onto others whom they perceive as lessers, possibly for the same reasons for which they themselves may have been ostracized.

Behaviors related to this mechanism may include an exaggerated opinion of one’s worth and abilities, unrealistically high expectations in goals and achievements for oneself and others, persistent attempts to correct others (regardless of whether or not they are actually correct), vanity, extravagant dressing (intent on drawing attention), excessive need for competition, pride, over-sentimentality and affected exaltation, snobbishness, a tendency to discredit others' opinions and over-forcefulness aimed at dominating those considered as weaker or less important.

Inferiority Complex

An inferiority complex is a feeling that one is inferior to others in some way. Such feelings can arise from an imagined or actual inferiority in the afflicted person. It is often subconscious, and is thought to drive afflicted individuals to overcompensate, resulting either in spectacular achievement or extreme schizotypal behavior, or both. Unlike a normal feeling of inferiority, which can act as an incentive for achievement, an inferiority complex is an advanced state of discouragement, often resulting in a retreat from difficulties.

Causes

1. Parental attitudes and upbringing - disapproving negative remarks and evaluations of behavior emphasizing mistakes and shortcomings determine the attitude of the child before the age of six.
2. Physical defects - such as disproportional facial and body features, weight, height, strength, speech defects and defective vision cause inferiority complexes.
3. Mental limitations - brings feelings of inferiority when unfavorable comparisons are made with the superior achievements of others, and when satisfactory performance is expected.
4. Social disadvantages and discriminations - family, race, sex, sexual orientation, economic status, religion, or color.

Manifestation

This feeling may be manifested in withdrawal from social contacts or excessive seeking for attention, criticism of others, overly dutiful obedience, fear and worry.

which of these groups do you belong to? are you normal or does your feeling of superiority prevent you from accepting the reality...take a moment to re-evaluate yourselves...

this is also a note to myself....

patience

its really getting thinner...

a week has gone

after a week of working....

im glad that i took the job in CROCS....

meeting people and interacting is fun...

i used to think that who would wear this funny looking shoes...

but..

now im selling ten to fifteen pairs a day...

not including the ones sold by my co-workers...

so now im a believer...

green crocs!!!

the CROCS DUDE eyeing his prey

when no customers are around...